Swaddling for better sleep
If you are struggling to get your newborn to sleep, you aren’t alone! Many parents come to me asking how they can get more sleep when a new baby enters the family. With some simple adjustments, you can improve your baby’s sleep. See how you can help!
Let’s talk about swaddling and why it is so important during the early months of your baby’s life! All babies are born with several normal newborn reflexes. Moro reflex, also known as the startle reflex, is one of these primitive reflex responses intended to keep a baby safe. Have you noticed your baby suddenly startle while sleeping before? This is the Moro reflex at work! The baby will experience a sensation of free-falling, where the baby reacts by lifting and stretching their arms. It often ends in the baby crying and/or waking.
We can EASILY prevent your baby from startling by swaddling them for sleep!
Over the years I have had many parents tell me, ‘My baby doesn’t like their swaddle’ or ‘They fought it so much I stopped doing it because they were always getting out’. There are lots of reasons why parents stop swaddling early. But education is power when it comes to little ones!
Here are some swaddling facts:
Babies generally don’t grow out of their startle until around 4-6 months
Swaddling helps simulate the security they felt in the womb (they squirm and move the same way they did in your belly; they just have the freedom to break out now)
Swaddling helps to reduce overall crying and helps to calm babies’ nervous system
Swaddling can help to extend sleep both overnight and for naps
Babies with Colic, reflux, and other painful conditions are the ones who benefit from swaddling the most. They also generally will be the ones who take the longest to grow out of their startle!
Some babies are less likely to startle and will grow out of this reflex quickly
Babies should be swaddled firmly around their chest/arms and loosely from the waist down to protect their hip position (think froggy legs, not straight down)
A baby who can roll easily from back to belly shouldn’t be swaddled
There are so many swaddling options out there. My personal favourite is always the classic muslin wrap! So, keep wrapping your little baby burritos for the best sleep possible!
Have you heard of the fourth trimester?
The 5 S’s by acclaimed Paediatrician and “Happiest Baby on the Block” Author, Dr. Harvey Karp are the foundation of how we work to settle a newborn baby. Backed by science, read how The 5 S’s can help get you and your baby the sleep that you need!
The theory and idea behind the fourth trimester came from the acclaimed paediatrician, Dr Harvey Karp. He defines his idea of the fourth trimester as the first 3 months of a baby’s life after birth. Karp’s belief is that babies are born 3 months too soon and are still adjusting to the world outside. Therefore, to comfort and calm a crying newborn, they need you to simulate the environment they had in utero.
Karp's 5 S's are:
🌟 Swaddling - helps to calm that pesky startle reflex
🌟 Side/Stomach - think chest-to-chest cuddles
🌟 Shushing - white noise
🌟 Swinging - rocking or swaying
🌟 Sucking - feeding or dummy
Karp believes that this formula can help to calm any unsettled newborn baby!
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Sleep Regressions
The 4 month sleep regression is something that puts fear into new parents everywhere! But did you know that sleep regressions are actually linked to developmental changes? Read and see who sleep Regressions don’t have to mean the end of good sleep!
Sleep regressions. Two words to put fear in any parent! These challenging periods are often a big reason Mum’s and Dad’s reach out to me for sleep support during their little one’s first year or so.
Sleep regressions are defined as a period of time, usually around 2-4 weeks when a baby who’s sleeping well suddenly has trouble settling down for sleep or wakes up fussing in the middle of the night. You are probably wondering, why?!
They largely occur during a period of developmental change or growth for a baby. Here are a few of the most common ones we see and some reasons that drive them.
🌟 6 weeks – The beginning of daytime sleep cycles
🌟 4 months – The beginning of night time sleep cycles or baby learning to roll
🌟 6 months – Due to a growth spurt that occurs around this time
🌟 8-10 months – Babies are learning to crawl, pull themselves up, and move more. Separation anxiety also begins
🌟 18 months – Generally happens due to separation anxiety and teething (molars, ouch!)
Sleep regressions don’t have to mean the end of good sleep. With time and consistency, you can get through and back to the routines your baby had before. Remember that how a baby falls asleep is how they will want to resettle. With this in mind, you can gently encourage independent sleeping with a settling method that suits your values and your baby’s temperament.
If your baby is unwell and suffering from congestion, using a nasal aspirator such as Snotty Noses - Official Home Of Snotty Boss | Baby Health & Sleep Products may help you get through the worst of it!
A Beautiful Review
Being a Night Nanny is such a wonderful privilege. Spending the first months supporting families through those early sleepless night is a priceless gift many parents dream of! This testimonial was written after completing three months with this family as a Night Nanny supporting newborn baby twins!
I recently received the most beautiful review from a family I had been supporting as a Night Nanny. This gorgeous family had brand new twin boys and needed someone to help them overnight while they adjusted to life as a family of four
5 nights a week, over the period of three months, I built such a special bond with both parents and babies. One that I will always cherish and hold dear to me. To spend these early months in someone's home is a true privilege and something I still have to pinch myself that I am lucky enough to call my career!
When hiring a Night Nanny, you aren't just getting the sleep that you need. But you are also getting someone to help you establish healthy sleep habits for your baby! You will get on-hand support and advice from me on everything baby related to help you really enjoy those early months with your new little one/s!
To say I love my job is an understatement! Supporting families is what I was born to do ❤
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“Sarah is phenomenal and I cannot recommend her highly enough. From the moment she stepped into our home and took one of our twin boys into her arms, we knew that we and our boys were in very good hands. Sarah joined our family when our twins were 2 weeks old and worked with us for 3 months as a night nurse.
As a new mum, I was naturally nervous and was just hopeful that Sarah could help me overnight with the boys so that I could get some rest to tackle the days on my own. But we got so much more. Not only did Sarah look after the boys overnight (feeding, settling etc), she provided us with so much advice and guidance around everything to do with the boys including their routines, feeding, developmental issues, and literally ANYTHING to do with parenting. Her knowledge of all things baby and children is exceptional.
Sarah was so kind, gentle, caring, and nurturing both towards us and the boys and even though we only had her assist us for 3 months, she feels like a member of our family and someone we will forever cherish.
Sarah is a real professional, was a delight to have in our home, and built a fantastic bond with us and our boys. Sarah clearly loves her job and is passionate about caring for babies and children. She is loving and caring and having Sarah made life so much easier at what can be an overwhelming time. We miss her every day. It was truly a pleasure to have her look after our boys at the start of their lives. We are lucky to have met Sarah and believe that any family would be lucky to have her.”
Amity, Ipswich